Waiting for love 💗

 Dear Sweet girl, heaven said with a frown , as they looked down to the earth. He is kind, but he is not the one for you sweet girl!

Unaware, of heavens thoughts, she smiles at the text message from her potential date. She smiles and says I really like him, he is funny, kind and kind of cute. Hopefully, he looks better in person, and hopefully, we can meet soon.

Days later, she receives a message from her inspiring hope & potential love; which said, I am sorry but you're not the one for me. What, she thinks but we have this wonderful connection.  We spend some much time talking and laughing. And he sends another I am sorry message.

She stands still and thinks, what am I doing wrong, then she heads to bed.

 As she sleeps, her ancestors surround her,  and the lesson begins:

Our sweet girl, slow down said her ancestors.

At times, you see the stop sign/Red flags 📮and you proceed anyways. Those signs are for you to yield /slow down and think, is this person for me? 

Time, you need time to allow your heart to heal in between those dates/ relationships. A broken heart and eyes of betrayal will make you date 25 percent, who doesn’t meet all of your wants or needs but your pain makes you hold on to the 25 percent because it feels and looks different from your previous 75 percent who hurt you💔 then you wonder why you and❤️‍🩹 25 percent argue so much.

In the midst of trying to find love, that deep affection that makes you happy. Remember to observe or ask them how do they treat their loved one’s ( mom, dad, siblings or close friends) because once the butterflies end that’s how they will treat you.  Also, how did they describe their ex- because it shows accountability, if everything was their ex's fault then it’s gonna to be your fault, when things go wrong. 

Hopefully, when you look into your lover’s eyes, you see how they feel About you and that's hopefully when you receive your title in their life such as baby,  bae, honey, queen 👑king, hubby or wifey.  If someone starts calling you baby, lady or sexy within seconds, minutes or days of being introduced to you it’s a📮 red flag! 

Before falling in love, on your dating journey take a risk and tell your date no or not yet! A sweet , no..It’s a test, if they get disrespectful it’s a red flag, and it’s a reflection of their maturity level.🕺  this is important because we unfortunately, can’t say, yes all the time.  But Be wise, make sure not to say no in an emergency situation or that will be a reflection of you! 💃

Finally, if you truly believe that you have found the one, your forever love, have they or will they make a permanent change for you! I mean, only date you as you only date them or change your last name 💍or something to show their serious, once the time is right,if they are right for you.. change will be easy. Your the one I can’t live without 💟

Sweet girl, opened her eyes with hope in her heart and wisdom to try again.

Definition of Dating:  is the process of spending time with someone to explore a potential romantic or intimate relationship.